For Salman, a member of The Coordinating Center’s Coordination of Community Services Standing Committee, his children have always been at the heart of everything. The father of Arsalan and Sareen, two young adults on the autism spectrum, Salman has spent over two decades advocating for his children to access support services, opportunities, and community resources they need to live independent and meaningful lives.
On any given day, Salman’s family life with Arsalan and Sareen may include shared meals, including favorite Afghani dishes, long walks, movies, and movie snacks, especially loved by Arsalan and Sareen. These everyday moments are what matter most for Salman and have shaped his journey as a father and advocate.
For Salman, those early years brought many emotions. He remembers the initial diagnosis as devastating, a kind of grief that can come with major life changes. Over time, he came to see neurodiversity as something that brings color, strength, and a deeper purpose. He says he would not be who he is today if not for his children’s neurodivergence.
Salman describes his family’s experience with The Coordinating Center as remarkable and life-changing, especially the support they received from Sheri Weissman, Program Director, Autism Waiver.
“One thing that always stood out was the amazing amount of support, knowledge, and insight she was able to provide,” Salman said. “She was always there and always a great advocate for my kids.”
Today, Arsalan and Sareen receive day and residential services through the DDA Community Pathways Waiver. For Salman, these services help his children build meaningful lives, stay connected, and be supported as individuals.
Salman’s advice to parents considering The Coordinating Center is to use the support available. He describes Maryland as a beacon of hope for individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities. “There are so many resources and support available. Enroll first and ask questions along the way—don’t miss out on what’s available to you.”
For families transitioning from school-based to adult services, Salman’s advice is simple: “Don’t wait.” He encourages parents to connect with The Coordinating Center and the DDA before graduation, to ask questions, stay informed, do the research, and advocate early to avoid gaps in support.
Salman lives by the quote, “God only gives you that which you can handle.” This belief inspires his advocacy and work in the autism community.
“Part of why I continue to work and expand my efforts in the autism community is to show that everyone has a voice,” Salman explains. “Regardless of the severity of their autism or how they experience their diagnosis, every individual deserves to be heard, valued, and empowered.”
